The eclipses weren't to figure out what you want IN your life, it's also about what kind of life you want to HAVE.
When they, those people, talk about releasing and clearing it's not things around your home, it's things stored in the crevices of our bodies and minds.  Things we didn't even know were there that bubble up and give us an opportunity to either pop the bubble and see what's inside or continue to push it down allowing our ego to dictate who's problem it REALLY is.  Where is a bottle of bubbles when you need one.